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More so, what does the home of the editor-in-chief of Beautiful Homes look like? This month we are showcasing Manju Sara Rajan’s new Bangalore apartment that is also part of her journey of self-discovery
I brought the sage from my home in Goa, the milk we got from a nearby store. It’s hard to explain why, but even to non-religious people like us new beginnings bring up the need for some rite or ritual—so my friend and I created our own. Between the purifying smoke and earthy fragrance of sage and the ceremony of boiling milk, we marked the beginning of Manju Sara Rajan’s new life in her new home.
For most people a new home doesn’t necessarily pronounce the change of life as we know it, but in this case it certainly did. Two years ago, Manju was starting her life as a single woman in a new city, and this home was going to be the container of everything that was to bring with it. When life gets confusing, you do what you know best. As a design lover, and editor of Beautiful Homes India magazine, she had already planned her apartment weeks before. Plus, it was important for her the mental well-being that the house feel like a home immediately. Everything was bought online and arrived just before she did.
I had come to help my friend ease into this new phase—the first step was the house. So, we brought out our scissors and began unpacking the couch, the lamps, the rug, the cushions.
Nothing like life taking away every modicum of control from you, to start believing in fate and happenstance. From moving to Bangalore to finding this apartment at just the right time, every step of this process felt serendipitous to Manju. In fact, it needed to. “I had no concrete plans to move to Bangalore. I just figured that if a house came through, then I would because the city is also close to the kids’ boarding school,” she says. Exactly at that time her friend in Bangalore was moving cities and offered Manju her place to rent. “I instantly said yes, in a way, because of how it looked. But also, because it was my friend's place. Since my children weren't there with me, I wanted my new life to be in the midst of my friends,” she adds.
And after that each piece of that puzzle just came together. Manju now lives in the centre of Bangalore; her most treasured spot in the city is Cubbon Park, and her most loved space in the home is the balcony facing the garden. This task of decorating her home as a newly single independent woman took Manju through a journey of rediscovering her own likes and dislikes. “I knew that I was going to put a lot of focus on creating a space that reflected who I felt like at that moment,” she says.
And then there’s the question—how does the idea of a home for a working mother change when the kids leave the nest? For starters, the second bedroom becomes a guest bedroom, for visiting friends and children. An old, well-loved desk takes the pride of place in the living room to make work from home comfortable. The dining table becomes the centre of all gatherings with new friends that the new city has granted her. “My friends are really the other people that this home is built around. The one thing that I've really overdone on, are plates and glasses—there are glasses for beer and glasses for whiskey and glasses for highballs, and noodle bowls. I think you should use everything you have all the time and not wait for some occasion,” Manju says.
One thing you immediately notice in this home is the art. Through her years working in design, Manju has amassed substantial knowledge on art, artifacts, antiques and textiles. The eye of a collector has always been there, even though the collection happened recently. “When I moved, I didn't really have anything on the walls. I didn't have a lot of objects. I also moved with just my suitcase and my grandfather's radio. I bought a whole pile of manjadikuru seeds from my property in Kottayam because my children and I collected those seeds together,” she says. Today one of her favourite pieces in the home is a massive sculpture by Wolf Jaipur, something she could have never had in her Kerala home. It is strong, it is powerful, it is red. “It has that sort of difficult-to-love beauty about it. Precisely because it's not trying to be pretty. It's not trying to behave. It's difficult and in your face. You either love it or you hate it,” she adds.
More than just the objects in the space, the way we live is about each person that inhabits the home and leaves their mark on it. While Manju may have an eye for art, the green thumb is borrowed from her Akka. The housekeeper is a full-time part of her new life, someone with whom the banter is like an old friend. Akka’s skills ensure Manju’s balcony is green and her kindness keeps her heart full.
“I think of this house like a home of hope because I'd hoped that I would be able to rebuild my life on my own. I was alone when I started out, but the way it came together is because of support from friends and people I met along the way. One thing I now understand is that coming home to a place where I am happy within and feel peaceful is the most important,” says Manju.
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